STEPS TO ABUNDANCE - A Weekly Newsletter Published by Jim Rivas Release Date: April 25, 2007
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Getting In Your Game

Is Transformation change or re-alignment?

Many will agree that personal transformation is about changing several aspects our lives; our habits, how we think, how we treat our bodies, how we treat our souls. The goal of personal development is to produce a “New You”.

But are the pieces already there?

I submit to you that everything that you will become is part of you now. Transformation isn’t changing, it’s re-alignment. We all have positive attributes and negative attributes. When we follow the societal “main stream” blue print, we will often find ourselves out of alignment with who we really are, or who we really can be.

Think about it. You may be engaging in home based free enterprise for the first time ever. Here you are “selling” for the first time in your life, OR selling YOU for the first time in your life. Many people early in their entrepreneurial career become afraid of prospecting because they fear rejection, they fear failure, they fear being able to ask the question or fear not being able to answer the questions. So what Happens?

This emotional state “Frames” your reality. It frames every single thing you do. In this state of fear you lack the belief in YOURSELF that it takes to broadcast the right vibrational energy in order for others to want to be involved with you in business and/or relationships.

But the truth is, for most of us, we have a circle of influence or people we know and feel comfortable with. We behave very differently around those people than we do when meet that new prospect. And it is this “dis-alignment” of your vibration that interferes with your results at the very core.

Fear not! If you do something uncomfortable long enough it will become comfortable. If you want to accelerate it, here’s a suggestion. Take a look at your life, your relationships right now. How do you interact with your loved ones, your trusted friends. You see … you DO have the ability to be comfortable with others. So now all you have to learn to do is to “copy” that emotional “frame” into your conscious and unconscious mind. Repetition in your consciousness will condition your subconscious. So think of it as “cutting and pasting” and emotional frame set.

What is the result of this …. Assumed rapport … assumed social consciousness … higher comfort level as you take your new imperfect action in discomfort land.  Get used to just feeling the same all the time about your comfort state in interpersonal contact. Sure you can improve over time and the tactical skills, but the core state is already in you. Just re-frame it by copying the emotion from where you ARE comfortable, so that when you meet that new prospect, you are instantly broadcasting “comfort”, “belief”, and “certainty” in who you are. In the fact that you CAN help anyone. Bottom line .. stop putting so much pressure on yourself to be perfect. It is over-rated.

Want to learn more about this material and getting in your game? You are invited to attend our Free Weekly Tele-seminar, Getting in Your Game. This is a no pitch call and everyone is welcome. It does not matter what you do or what business you are in. This call is not about any business, it is about you, and how to change your results forever. I can help you with conquering the biggest obstacle to your own success … your mind!

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